I am 27 years old. I am suffering from a critical mental problem since 12 years. When I was 15 years old I saw girl and she also saw me and it is going on day by day and I thought In mind that she will be my life partner but never we means I and she talk with each other and after some days I feel that I can't live without her and she avoided me everyday and I feel very hurted mentally and feel very mentally weak. I am related to a poor background family. And after day by day she avoided me and I feel hunted till now I think it is a one sided love. Every time I think if she comes to me and understand me talk to me but she never done and I mentally hunted day by day .I think if I get married to any other good girl then I will be cured from it but it is not possible right now so can anyone prescribe me homeopathic medicine or any tips or anything else so that I can overcome from it.
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yes, it does seem a one-sided affair and it has developed into a crush. Marriage is not the immediate solution. You need to stop fantasising about this girl and develop yourself to make yourself suitable as a personality. You can attend personality development classes and meet with a counselor to find out why you are so fixated on this girl and resolve the same. There may be some insecurity and poor self-image issues too to consider in therapy. 12 years ago you were too suggestible and innocent to get so tangled with a girl just because she looked at you. A relationship should always be two ways and any unilateral belief will not be sustainable for a reciprocal match.
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It is unfortunate such things often happen in Love stories, do not get disheartened, more you emotionally attach to the situation longer it lingers in your mind, it may be easy for others to say Forget, My advise is develop emotional detachment to her which may be little difficult but not impossible. Please seek counselling.
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