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I am 24 years old and married. We successfully celebrated the 1st anniversary. We are marriage by arranged. I love my husband lot an always express my love to him. I try to make him fall in love with me like but he can't. I will not speak romantically and he will not understand the love about me. But he always takes more care. He think that love just buying costly gifts and doing his responsibilities like monthly ones outing and buying new cloth for his wife having relationship in bed that's it. He will not speak with me openly always spent time with using mobile and watching cricket. I am really depressed by him. How to make him understand that he wants to spend time with me. Fall in love with me. I always believe in love not money. Please help me.
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Yours is an arrange marriage. So give your husband some time to open up. Maybe he is an introvert and takes time to be more vocal about his feelings. Try spending quality time with him. Express your self to him, tell him what you feel and experience. A relationship between a couple grow more and more with communication. The more you communicate the more you understand each other. If still you feel that there is no improvement in your relationship then consult a Clinical Psychologist in order to start martial therapy. A Clinical Psychologist will help you fill that gap and make you get rid of discomfort you are experiencing.
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