Hello doctor, I am 26 years old and my husband is 31 years. He is a professor, and I am home maker. We are married for 3 years and is having a kid of 2 year. From the day 1 of my marriage I have went through mental harassment from my in laws, and my husband has a tendency of physically abusing me around trivial issues. Although we had an arrange marriage where I belong from an affluent family and my husband belongs to a lower middle class family. With time I gradually found that due to difference in our background and the way of our upbringing we have developed different temperament and there lies our conflict, although I have tried my level best to adjust into their lower middle class parameters but according to them I have failed and could not adjust with them. Since 2 years I am staying with my husband at Shillong due to his profession. But with time our relationship is worsening day by day. Moreover physical abuse have become a more or less regular habit for him. Where I and my kid are equally suffering due to this. My husband describes his action of physical abuse as "as he is not capable of controlling me" But I think problem lies somewhere else. He is a nice person outside with his friend and family. But when it comes to us we does not lie in his priority .And hence I need a consultation with you. I don't want my marriage to be broken since my kid loves his father and it would hurt her to be apart from his father. Moreover according to me every child deserves a love and care of both the parents for a healthy development. I want to save my marriage and maintain an ideal relationship with my husband. I want to be loved and cared. Hence I want your consultation in Shillong. I would like to book an appointment and bring my husband for counselling session.