Hi, I occasionally drink and smoke (am not addicted. Just for enjoyment I do these occasionally. But my boy friend hates it and fight with me after hearing this. For this reason he blames and insults me a lot even he says that it was a worst decision to start a relationship with me. He does not touch these things ever. He does not like me just the way I am in many matters. I have done for him many things but yet I can not satisfy him and can not fulfill his requirements. I am very upset and depressed. Very much heart broken and sad. What should I do? Please give me suggestion.

Mr. Senthilkumar LPsychologist14yrs exp

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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Relationships will successfully only when there is a trust, give&take and good understanding between the partners. If any of these is challenged, then it needs a lot of efforts to patch up. Every matured individual have their own choice of lifestyle, priorities, like and dislikes and many more. Too much of influence will touch the ego and affect the relationship. It's right for both of your point of view based on your belief system or upbringing. If you struggle to maintain such relationships, openly discuss and try to sort out, else you will be carrying this stress all along. Suggest you to take a counseling support to handle the stress or depression and ways to handle such suitations. Feel free to reach out to me online for further assistance.  

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