I don't want to stress my children for education I just support them by asking them to try to do good then never force them if they don't achieve it the rate was expected but from my wife side it's exactly opposite and all this leads to quarrel between us, she always keeps on comparing our children with others and even willing that our child should even learn what others are learning, I don't like all this and finally more quarrel. I want them to grow carefree with feeling of responsibility under guidance so with time they understand their objective of life and even they don't go across heavy load of stress in their life? Answer me am I wrong here? Plus all this is harming me health wise, mentally, sexually, etc.