Hi, After 7 months of long distance relationship (in june ,2018 I face to face met up with him and spent 13 days together in flat) he said me he doesn't love me. He is Gujarati and am Bengali girl. He also said that he is very much emotionally attached with me. He missed me but being single he is living peacefully and without any tension anxiety which was faced by him in this relationship. He has no job regarding tension right now. He is 23 and am 26 years old. He said that he is grateful to me that I have given him lots of love ,care, priority, respect etc.In his life ,his mom and I only understand him. But for me he has no love. I think it was a habit ,an inflammation which was destroyed 3 months ago after some conflict between us. We analyse things differently cause we have different mentality. I have quited many likings because he did not like those. I have quited those things which he did not appreciate. I did not keep any contact with him. Am crying now date and night. Please help.
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I think this guy is not meant for you at all, he was simply playing with your emotions. I would suggest you to move on and seek the help of your family or friends in helping you move on. Trust if you find it difficult to move on you may need to consult some psychological help through a counsellor in your area.
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Hello Friend, Thanks for seeking a help here. I can understand your situation. First thing you need to do is identify your needs and wants in life. If love is so important for you, then set your expectation very clear and show that on the right person. Suggest you to take a relationship counseling to clear your emotional disturbance first. By ventilating your emotion with such open discussion, you can see a different perspective of yourself and your problem. Feel free to reach me online for further assistance. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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