I am 24 year old and I am engaged. My problem is that sometimes I am feeling attracting toward any other person except my fiance for ex; he may be my brother in law. I think I am bit addicted to this. But I am feeling every time in love with my fiance. I can leave him at any cost. When I was confused that I really love to my fiance or it is only an infatuation or a fake feeling. I gave little Time to this to make sure my feelings. And result is yes I am really in love with my fiance who is going to be my life partner and I genuinely want to spend my entire life with the loyalty and honesty. I know one thing as per my maturity I should not have any kind of thinking toward any other person except my life partner. But I am very confused that what shall I do to change my thinking from the root? Or how get rid from this? I want to spend my life with happily and want to make my whole family happy (in law's). Please tell me the remedies for this problem.
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lybrate-user, its very natural for any human to feel attracted to one or more people. You are aware of this feeling and the thoughts arising in you which is a good sign. Being aware of your thoughts and feelings will help you to not act out on them (in ways that might hurt you or others). Feeling guilty about these feelings is also natural. But the best way is to see this attraction as a fleeting and temporary phase. Do not suppress it do not dwell on the guilt do not act on those feelings and thoughts keep focussing on your present reality and what do you want to experience more in the future. Nurture more self love and love for your present and future healthy relationships. Best wishes.
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