I am in a relationship for 5 years and everything is good except for afew things with my boyfriend. I love him very much and try to spend as much time with him as possible. Since we both belong to Indian families and me specially being a girl, I can't spend the night with him at his place for obvious reasons and I don't have any friends who will back me up on this. Both my parents know about my boyfriend (my mom the whole thing and my dad just the basics), and if I tell them I want to spend the night with him only God knows what will happen. He just doesn't want to understand this thing. We live a bit far from each other but we still manage to see each other as much as we can. He wants to spend more time with him. Like going a trip together or spending the night at his place. These both can't happen at this moment and I try to make him understand that. Whenever he gets drunk he always tells me this and that I'm the cause his depression and all but will spending the night at his place solve everything? I don't know. My parents are quite conservative in this aspect, and everything will happen after marriage. There will be a huge fight with my parents if I tell them I want to spend the night at his place. As you may know how Indian parents are. And we are still young I'm 23 and he is 24, but we are not working yet. Please suggest what I should do.