I am 50 years old, my wife is suffering from mild depression and she takes the anti depression medicine since long time. Now Her willingness towards sex is totally nil for last 3 years. What should I do to revive Her sex, please advice and helf me.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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You should both go to a sexologist and talk about your problem. It is very likely that she is gone off of sex because of the medication and also because of menopause. It is however possible to get her interested again if you approached her reasonably by talking about your need. You can also start with gentle that is non-sexual and gradually make it more physical and touch only non-sexual areas. As she gets comfortable you can touch her erogenous zones and gently coax her into more of that kind of contact. If she is amenable she may allow more of it. If you do it right and excite her, she may change her attitude. If she is experiencing genital dryness, as is expected, she may not be favorable. In that case a visit to her gynecologist is advised for a topical application. 

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