I am not an introvert but I can't just get along with an unknown person quickly. I need some time like at least 2 hours. And even with my family members. Like when someone other than my near family visits I need some time to get friendly and it might be more than 2 hrs but not less, even if I was completely fine and friendly with him/her the last time we met even if we met like just a week ago. How can I get better being at friendly in no time? Is there any way?

Snehal ThamkePsychiatrist8yrs exp

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Deer lybrate-user. I can see age as 13, but you have mentioned your previous conditions as obesity, diabetes, etc. If you are 13, I would say this is the age where such things happen cz that's when you explore yourself, you get to know your identity, your role in society and in general. This is the age when one strts finding oneself, knowing oneself where one might even have low self esteem, a little less confidence. As you grow, you tend to become more confident about yourself, there's no identity crisis or role confusion and then the relationships get stronger. So you will be able to make friends in a better way once you r grown up. If you r not 13, then I would really like to know more about you before answering your query. May be it's just your personality or somethings hidden. But details are needed before commenting on it. Thanks.  

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