Hello I am 26 years old female. I am in a relation from past many years and now getting married to him. I am not able to lose my virginity as I am having fear or phobia of pain. We have tried many times but due to my fear we were nt able to do. My. Would be is too copertaive amd patient about it but now I am in stress as due to this my life is getting affected. Please do not tell me about lubricant and jelly and all. I have body lox2% n for trial I applied in it my leg. But no numbing effect is seen. Please suggest me any otherumbing cream with its use to. Use only for first tym intercourse. Please tell me any ointment to save my relation. It would be too helpful.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist13yrs exp

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Hello- vaginal spasm (vaginismus) is a condition which affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration, including sexual penetration, insertion of tampons, and gynecological examinations. This is the result of a conditioned reflex of the pubococcygeus (pc) muscle, causing muscles in the vagina to tense suddenly and making any kind of vaginal penetration either painful or impossible. Use the finger pliers massage with vip cream to soothe the vagina. Generally, you can use warm semen to massage your vagina since semen contains a lot of prostaglandins to help with tissue relaxation. A warm vaginal stimulation can induce vaginal blood circulation and trigger prostaglandin and androgen hormone synthesis. Or, use a warm vaginal dilator to emulate a hot penis. You can buy a medical vaginal dilator and then heat it up with warm water. Apply vip cream to your vagina and then insert the heated dilator into it gradually. If you use semen, you'll need pregnancy protection if you don't want to get pregnant.  

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