Hi,
I am married for last 4 years to a bpd male, he has undergone various treatments in the past. I want to know can a relationship with bpd male last forever?

Question

If you want a person to change, you must first realize how hard it is to change yourself. While treatments for bipolar disorder can help control the condition, it will be a constant battle throughout his life.
If you decide to end a relationship because of a person?s bipolar disorder, try not to blame the person or their condition. It is no one?s fault that the person has the condition.
Here are some reasons you may need to end the relationship:
Your partner is dangerous.
He or she becomes careless or reckless during mania.
Your partner blames you for his or her problems.
Your partner neglects treatments on purpose.
Of course leaving without warning or discussion will be destabilizing for the other person, but if it is an issue of safety, you must protect yourself.
Even if there is no risk of danger or violence, keep in mind that you cannot predict or take responsibility for the other person?s behaviors. They may respond with more intense anxiety, depression or anger than you expect or they might have been closer to wanting to break it off themselves than you realized, and may react with relief ?or denial.

Ashish Sakpal · Accepted Answer

If you want a person to change, you must first realize how hard it is to change yourself. While treatments for bipolar disorder can help control the condition, it will be a constant battle throughout his life.
If you decide to end a relationship because of a person?s bipolar disorder, try not to blame the person or their condition. It is no one?s fault that the person has the condition.
Here are some reasons you may need to end the relationship:
Your partner is dangerous.
He or she becomes careless or reckless during mania.
Your partner blames you for his or her problems.
Your partner neglects treatments on purpose.
Of course leaving without warning or discussion will be destabilizing for the other person, but if it is an issue of safety, you must protect yourself.
Even if there is no risk of danger or violence, keep in mind that you cannot predict or take responsibility for the other person?s behaviors. They may respond with more intense anxiety, depression or anger than you expect or they might have been closer to wanting to break it off themselves than you realized, and may react with relief ?or denial.

Hi, I am married for last 4 years to a bpd male, he has undergone various treatments in the past. I want to know can a relationship with bpd male last forever?