I am 32 years working women .joint family blessed with 3 years son. Born after 3 miscarriages. .but not happy with life. MIL is very cruel .relationship with husband is diluting now.what can i do?
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Dear Shabana , stop bothering about others in the family . You have been blessed with a precious baby , who you have received as a reward for your patience. Focus on your child - do everything you can in your capacity to bring up this child as a good human being. the more you focus on the negativities in life , the more you would be unhappy. Focus on what you have got - a healthy baby, his future. Once you begin to be happy and stop cribbing about the negative people around you , your relation with your husband will also begin to improve.
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you have to have ur own life. discuss with ur hubby and get out of the cruelty or be a good mom and reasonable wife to ur hubby and do what u want
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It is not unusual in our society to not have strong marital relationship and most people do not focus on improving the same. Any relationship needs both focus and work of love to continue to be good. Marriage is no exception. There could be many reason like having a child or you also are working and busy wit house hold work. On top of this your in law issues. All these things drains you and you don't have time and energy left for your marriage. Similar thing cloud be possible for your husband. Right now you seem to be under lot of stress. If you could take few days off and go on a little holiday trip with your husband and son. Please do that. You both need to talk and understand each other and decide what is important for you. You may consult a marriage counselor who can help you work on I creasing positivity inna relationship and on an individual level. I understand that your son needs your focus attention ans love at the same time your relationship to. When I am saying you both need to talk. Inam not saying just blame each other and fight. I really want you to listen to each other deeply a d understand and make the bond of friendship stronger. My speciality is marriage and parenting. If you need any further advice or concrete guideline to be happy and content feel free to contact me. Wishing you very best.
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