I love a guy who has been engaged by his parents to a widow girl with his consultation. But he loves me and I too love him. To save good memories to our life, we decide to go on a vacation for 2 days just to forget everything around us and just be like we two together. Planned everything but still I am in a confusion whether what I am doing is good/ethical? I feel like cheating my parents to whom I gave the belief that I will never go wrong at any point of my life. Please advise what should I do! Can I carry out my plan with boyfriend with whom I can never get a chance to spend time with or I need to lose this?

Your question is highly respectful. -you are a very courageous person with a beautiful heart. You are clear about what you want and very clear about your commitments to your parents as well. Please ask this question to yourself- suppose you were in place of that widow lady? Luck betrayed her once when she lost her husband. Would you want to be the reason for her misfortune now? - her fiancee getting involved with another lady- i.e. You and then coming to her? Quite unthinkable! so, please have the courage to face reality and be bold enough to stop yourself from being a cause of misery for someone else. You will be a winner every way. 1 you will rise in your eyes that you could let your love go for someone else sake 2 you will rise in your eyes that for your parents sake, you could let your love go 3 you will be proud of your own decision giving is always better than retaining. 

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