I am 25 and my husband is 27. We got arranged marriage. My husband is so silent character. In the beginning, I noticed he looks at girls even at my sister and each and every time I warned him not to do. Still he did that, and after six months of marriage I got pregnant. Now I am 7 months pregnant, In my first month he left his job. Now he got a new job, so for the past 5 months he was with me upto my six months pregnancy. Now he got a new job, and staying in distant city. He do not make a call for me or even text chat with me. If I asked about that, he says you sent me to job but I want to be with you until baby born. I could not say anything because, even I need my husband in this time but this job he got after a lot of struggles. He says that I do not love him but I love him a lot, He is so reserved character so he never share anything to me, how could I change him, also I care a lot for him, even he knows that well. Pls suggest.
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You may not be able to 'change' him, if his behavior is part of his innate nature. Besides we cannot change people to fit our concepts of perfection. I suggest you keep that expectation aside. The best thing would be to approach a marriage counselor or psychiatrist and arrange an appointment for both of you as a couple. If he does not agree, try to get the support of a family member or close friend who will be able to mediate between you both. With proper intervention and/or counseling you both will be able to understand each other better and improve your relationship.
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Please continue to message or write or talk to him as much as you can. Keep him in on every single detail about your pregnancy. Share to the fullest how much you and baby remember/think of him. The more you keep in touch, the more he will get the feeling of how much you care/want him/ keep him informed as a partner/father about your baby. He will really feel loved and wanted- a beautiful feeling for both parents-to-be and QUOTE THIS from your side! happy parenting!
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