I am 19 year old male. I want to find out that am I a extrovert or introvert. Because I do not know myself. I just want to know what type of nature I have. I searched over the net, I am confused. Like I have friends I go out with them but if I have some tv series or movies or anything interesting that I can do alone, I choose that over them. I do not like small talks because I am not good at them. But I can talk to anybody as long as there is no string attached. And its like I want to be an introvert thats why I am thinking like that. But before that also means before college I used to go out to play with friends. I have many friend now but sometimes I feel alone. I go to parties and places with friends if I have not visited that or have not tried. When I am with people its feels like I am acting because when I am with family I act different, with school friend, college friend, or anybody I meet I act like person what I wanna show. But when any two group meet like my two different friends that situation makes me panic at that time I do not know how to act. I do not know that is why I do not invite friends at my home. I spent my half a day watching movie or surfing alone. I know deep down I have to do something productive I am wasting time by doing that but reality makes me anxious. So I do not know who am i? Because to some person I am intelligent, to some I am loser, or to some I am silent, or to some a guy speaks a lot. So please clear my confusion.
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You sound more like an Introverted person.
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Hi lybrate-user, You actually feel bad regarding your Behavior to others, you feel you are insulting others. Nevermind, there must be some insecure feeling within You, we need to find out only then we can help you resume your more normal social Behavior that you were before. But when time passes everything becomes well. If you feel that it hurts you more deep into your heart then definitely you need counselling and treatment. Do not let this to hurt you more bcoz this will definitely spoil yourself both in studies, career, as well as in family. Through assessment we can tell you exactly whether you are an extrovert or overt in characteristics, but from what I could judge is you are turning to be introvert. Anyway I am there to help you overcome this problem, feel free to contact me by visiting my in-clinic that is online consultation. Take care. With regards,
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People who are both introvert and extrovert to some extent are called ambivert and this label is not important what others think of you is not important what concept you have formed about yourself is more important. You are in your growing periods and personality develops by age of 18- do not over analyze every aspect and enjoy life think less. Consult me for counseling and therapy. All the best.
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