I am 25 years working lady. Sometimes I feels depression for my mother. She is 59 years old and housewife. She always fighting with me tiny matters. And describes relatives that I am bad character girl and thats happen only for me and I tortured her. She also done this behaviors my father and brother but doing extreme with me. What I do? How escaped from this situation.
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Its really painful when someone very close does this type of activity but afterall she is your mother and real well wisher, in your case it seems that communication gap is making things worse. Its becoming very prominent now a days that due to many factors the gap between parents and children is increasing day by day. You need to talk to your mother and ask about the reason. Any matter can be solve by proper communication .its also is the test for your patience. Don't be aggresive be calm ,you can also take help of any professional regarding this. Take care.
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Get away from the house and stay away from her since you are working its easier.
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Dear lybrate-user, Please do not try to escape from the situation. Accept that your mother has some problem and that is why she fights wilh the family. Please understand that she is also not comfortable talking bad about you or fighting with your father and brother. Once you accept these, you will find ways of dealing with the problem of your mother. 1. You may take her to a psychiatrist 2. You may talk openly to her brothers and sisters and get their co operation in treating her 3. If she refuses to come to psychiatrist, you go to psychiatrist and request her to come along to complain about your behavior. 4. You can approach a local women's helpline or family counselling center. 5. Anything else you can think of.
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