I was in love with a girl, and it was one sided but extreme. I wanted to marry her. Now the conditions have changed to such an extent that I can marry any girl but not her. I am not able to figure out the main reason, but may be the slight negative attitude she shows towards me. Now I am in a condition where neither I can forgot her, I want to get away from her but internally I still wish I could marry her. This feeling has bring an all time sadness in my mind, thereby affecting my professional and personal lyf. I am unable to concentrate on any damn thing. Please someone suggest what I can actually do to gey rid of all this.
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Thanks for your query. You are a victim of the hate and revenge industry. This is a big threat to a normal society. Innocent victims are trapped in a game of love until the victim is convinced he is in love. Then the love is converted slowly or suddenly into hate and misbehavior. By this time the victim is trapped in such a way that he can not get out of the relationship easily. This method is used to study how much hate and revenge the victim is able to generate. Some may even end up destroying and some even to the extent of killing their partners. Thus the hidden animal instincts of the victim are surfaced and this is used to study the hate and revenge instincts of the victim. This is what is happening with you. What enamoured you as love has now been converted into hate and now the study paradigm is to find out how much and what you are capable of doing with hate. I am sure what you are capable of doing when you were in love has already been completely studied. This is a study of the emotional blue print of the individual. Blue print means how far you will and can go in hate, love, ambition, greed, lust, power, religion, freindship, kinship, career, family life, wealth, poverty etc You tend to think that people around you have gone crazy and they have lost their way. But be careful because they are actually making your blueprint.
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Hi lybrate-user! First of all shld confirm if she has any soft corner towards you. If so express your love towards her. If she accepts well and good. If not leave her and love someone who loves you. It is always better to love someone who loves you more than accepting someone who doesn't love you. You have to higher goals in life, she should actually feel jealous of you stepping higher and higher, achieving success in other aspects of life. You can outburst your emotional distress in achieving, never give up. Come up in life. Love is not in looks it is in both hearts when United leads a happy and peaceful life forever whether arranged or love marriage, if someone is ready to marry you, that means they want you as their lifelong partner sharing ups and downs of marital life only then true love survives and lasts. Try to overcome this by winning that person who is not loving you by achieving all goals in life whether marriage, career or personal life before her. Do not be weak to show her you are not challenging. Try to defeat her by achieving, becoming someone who people around you talk about you outstanding. Take care. Throw away unwanted thoughts. Keep worthy thoughts.
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