Hi. I am 25 year old woman. I'm married since 4.5 years and I have a 3 year old son. I'm working for my husband in his organization. I recently had a huge fight with my husband. I promised my son to make him a small castle. But my husband tore it. And threw it away. Because I was unable to complete the work which he gave me. My child started crying. It broke my heart I'm suffering from anxiety disorder and this fight has pushed me beyond my limits. I think I am losing control and going crazy. Am I?

Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user ! I felt really bad, I could actually imagine how it would have hurted your son. Frankly speaking concentrate only on your son, but should also maintain at least a problem free life with your husband. Try to be silent, do not end up arguing. Try to not make the dispute big by answering your hubby all the time. Try to adjust for your little son sake. Try giving up. Try not to have too many expectation from your hubby. It happens at this age when kids are 1 to 4 years of age. Try to make your son little attached to his father also so that your hubby also will understand the importance of father how he should behave in front of your child, but handle this carefully. You need to adjust at least till your son turns 6 to 12 years of age. If in future you do something for your son try to hide and keep from your hubby. I feel I should explain more of how you have to behave with your hubby, bcoz kids are very important in life, bcoz most parents do not understand what impact will it do to their little ones though they love their kids, still when husband and wife starts an argument they go blind forgetting their child's presence, in front, how their little small heart gets hurted, so please come in for an online consultation so that I could help you overcome this problem completely, at one consultation itself if you feel free to contact me either through text chat or call me when you find difficulty to manage, if you feel this one suggestion will help you no problem. Take care of your little one, try to avoid argument which leads to fight between you and your hubby. With regards,  

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