I am a graduate civil engineer. Its been a few month I since I hv passed out and since then I has been unemployed. During that time, staying with my family n neighbours n living a lazy n comfortable life, I have became in illusion with all these. Now I have got a job but staying outside my home is not making me feel comfortable. Almost every time I think about my family, neighbours and I am becoming restricted to those comfortable life style. Sometimes when I think seriously about my future, watch some motivational videos, listen to my friends and familiesand I think positively but again after sometime again those positive thoughts gets distracted and I feel in illusion again! Please help me how can I get out of this horrible negative thinking. Thank you.

Dr. Psychological Counselor Pushpa SinhaPsychologist17yrs exp

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HI LIBRATE USER Almost all people miss something about home when they are away from home. You may feel homesick. Homesickness can affect people of all ages in almost any situation, be relaxed. There are some steps you can take to help yourself. Try to do something fun to forget about being homesick, think positively about your job and your future to feel better. Try to do some similar activities in your new environment. Eat your favourite food from your home, listen your favourate songs. Try to keep your focus positive its important to look at the good side of your work profile and new opportunities. Give yourself time, you should be realize that new situations take time to get use to and that you will probably always miss home to some extent, but over the time feeling of homesickness will decrease in intensity and number of episodes. Thanks. 

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