Hi previously I have bf and we are having physical contact after that we broke up because of his sadist behavior in my engg my frd propose to me I accepted him but I didn't told my past bcz of feared I thought he also leave me alone after he knows my past through my ex bf he takes time after that he told he want to live with me and also he said that please tell to your parents also abt our love I trust him and I said to my parents they accepted after that he moved to us for m.s in month he said no I don't want you and my parents won't accept our love and whenever I remember abt your past I'll kill you so stop here he said like this and he avoid my calls and msgs but I am still waiting for him 1y 6m recently he came to India he want physical contact frm me we went to room he said I won't Marry you but ill be there like frd for life long I cried like a kid and my marriage was fixed by parents he said do mrrg and be happy and sorry for everything he talk with me every day like frd after cl end I cried.

Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user! It happens 4G generation following such steps to have two wife's or two males in their life irrespective of what others say, they try to maintain the secret. To tell you frankly you or nor your lover is at fault. He may have been serious to you, dreamt of marrying you, but after knowing your past he feels you not loyal for having hidden the past and his parents must have been strict to him and all these reasons made him to not get married. But as you are sincere, his love towards you is true but not sincere enough to marry you, because he wants, but cannot keep you with him always so before he gets married he wants you and also before your marriage. No use of crying. Actually speaking it would be better for you to get married to someone whom your parents would choose or you shld just walk to his parents if you have the boldness enough to face and convince the situation. If you want to know more you can definitely contact me through online consultation to overcome this problem, or if painful, or if you are in confusion still. Take care. With regards 

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