I am 20 years old and a student in kota, rajasthan (india). I had left my gf for studies without telling her 2 years ago. Now that we are together she confessed that she had a new bf and she did stuffs that I didn't want to know. Now that I know all these, I feel like I committed a huge mistake when I had left her. Is there any way I can forget whatever she said she did? Please help me. I can't live with this.

Dr. Akshata BhatPsychiatrist5yrs exp

96% (1150 ratings)

Ask Free Question

You left your girlfriend to pursue your studies without telling her two years ago. Inspite of that, she has agreed to continue a relationship with you and has been honest enough to tell you about her other relationships. Now you are upset about something that happened when you weren't together, after you ended the relationship for your own reasons without taking her feelings into account. It is unfair for you to hold this against her because you ended the relationship. She has been honest enough to tell you everything, so you need to get past this. Rather than getting upset about this, work on your relationship with her and put more effort into being understanding. As long as it is in the past, accept that it has happened and move on. If you keep holding on to this, it will ruin your relationship. 

1 person found this helpful