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I am 26 year old man. I am suffering from psychological problem from last 1 year. My girl friend broke up with me (but I had not broke with her) 1 year back. Somehow I manage the situation and move on in life. But she keep on calling me 2-3 times month and some time 2-3 time a week also. Whenever I talked to her all past memories recollected in my mind & I goes into depression as it is impossible for me to talk to her as friend only. If I do not pick her call then I become anxious & restless & start thinking that may be she needed my help. Best thing is she never call me or text me but this is not happening. I had told her 3-4 times to not call me as I can not talk to you as friend only but she never listened to me. Please help me as I can't scold her or treat her badly. Thanks in advance.
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As long as you keep talking to her, taking her calls and keeping contact with her, you will not be able to move on. If you want to get over her and move on with your life, a clean break is advised. Ending a relationship is difficult enough but staying in touch with your ex girlfriend will keep your focus on her constantly. Take a hard look at why you are maintaining contact with her. She doesn't seem to be interested in getting back with you but is just contacting you when she wants something. This situation is keeping you stuck in a vicious cycle. Take a decision and break the pattern.
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