Hi I am 32 years old) working in USA for cruise lines. I worked for 8 to 9 months & got 2 to 3 months vacation. Me n my wife (31 years old) almost completed 10 years married life. We have a baby boy (2 years old). My wife n my baby stay in India. Me almost worked there more than 4 years. Without me my wife suffered lots of mental stress from my mom & my in laws. We already visited with psychiatrist n my wife is in medication. I know that medicines are not good for health. From past 2 years our marital problems started. We tried to make our relations in positive way. But we vein. Now she demand for separation. She want to live alone. She is mentally very disturbed to carry all duties likes look after of our son, daily basis market etc. I know that this all has to be done by both. But now I am helpless. Because of my job. But I can't believe to destroy a nice relation. We did love marriage. We know each other from 1999. We made relation from 2001. So I don't want to lose her in any cost. She supported me each of my when I was nothing. Now I have everything but really miss my wife. So I want to marriage counsellor to protect my love life. please help me. please I don't want to loose her.
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Dear lybrate-user Appreciate your concern and genuine attitude towards wife and family. Agree that your family should be protected and your relationship should be maintained. Is there any support from relatives from your family .Try all possibilities to generate support to wife and children. Try to relieve her from stress. Try to maintain caring and loving communication with her whenever possible. Both of you need marital and family counselling. Since you are at different regions of earth Online counselling may be an immediate option even though direct is the best. You can fix up appointment either together or individually soa that your family can be helped to a great extent. All the best.
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