Hi, I had a break up second time with a same boy. I really loved him but the issues between us is compatibility. He aging broke up with me because of dis. I totally went again into depression now. Feeling stressed, disappointed, unloved. I find myself loser now. I am not good for any other boy. We had a physical relationship bt we didn't had sex. But it's just he wanted sex and I wanted time for it. I really can't understand what to do? Please help. I can't love anyone as I use to love him. But I have found he doesn't loves me as I do. Please help me throughout dis situation. I feel like dying without him.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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If he doesn't love you like you do, then there could be something to be concerned about. If you look madly then that is not a good yardstick to judge his love by. Sex must be given to the person who deserves it. If he is in a hurry, then he does not care or respect your wishes. You need to step back and review this situation to get a proper perspective. If compatibility is not good, then both of you need to have a great amount of justifiability. This seems to be already indicated by two breakups i.e. Means that one or both of you lack the adjustment required to make a relationship successful. This is a good indicator or future events and possibilities. Respect, trust, and commitment is very essential to make a good relationship. If the indications are bad now itself, take a call and move on.  

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