Hello doctor, Am 30 years old. I have 1.5 year old kid. Now my problem is my husband. He is having illegal affair with his old class mate. It has been continuing for past 1.5 year. His family come to know all this. Because I have intimate everything to them. That lady crossing her limits. My daughter living with my mother home. Because I need to give positive environment to my daughter. More over he likes me much. He is my official manager. Am earning nice. If I create any problem he ll stop giving projects to me. Many times he used to threatened me. For my daughter am tolerating all this shits. His parents spoke to that lady and warned. But she is not listening. She looks very bad. But I don't know y he get addiction towards her. He is drinking heavily because of this. Am sure if she get rid of him he ll be very fine. She is living in abroad along with her husband and kids. She is still cheating. My husband sleeping alone. Because mid night she used to call him. I have seen they had sex chat, video sex. By this way they r getting satisfy. But it's not pure love. Doctor please advice me how to make him understand and how to make her stay away? We planned to speak to her parents about her cheating. Also she has sent many love gifts to him. His family took everything from our home. After long fight he come to know that her gifts are with them. He is very eager to get that gifts. But I strictly ask them do not give those gifts to him. Because that's only evidence for her affair. He is trying to safeguard her. But I want her to off from my life permanently. Because I come to know she is emotionally making him very weak. So he couldn't realize reality. Doctor please advice how to handle this.