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Sir, I was in touch with a girl since last 3 years. Actually I really liked her and she also knew about it. We have been friends since 7 years and from last 3 years our conversations increased a lot. Nov-4-2014 was her birthday, we spent the day together and I proposed her, she said that her family won't agree to our relationship that's why she can't say yes and then she blocked me on Facebook and WhatsApp. I tried calling her a lot but she never picked my phone. Later after 8 months she unblocked me and gave a text on Facebook asking me if I have moved on or not and then we started talking. She used to show a lot of care and whenever I asked her about a relationship, her answer was same, she said "i'm her very good friend, she can't see me in trouble in future because her family will not agree and we will have to part our ways. I always said "its ok" I asked her to meet up a lot of times, she agreed and never came. One day I asked her in anger why she does this, she said she can't face me and asked me to move on. In between all these she also used to say that her parents want to get her married and prove that we both don't have a future. All her chats and conversations made me realize that she also feels the same but don't admit. These things kept on going until we met on Sept-9-2016. We had a good day together, she clicked a lot of pictures in my phone. We started talking a little more after that day. After few weeks again we met, we were roaming in a not so crowded mall, it was only for 2-3 hours but we had a good time talking. These were the days when she made me realize that she want me to stay by her side. We always met when she wanted to meet, whenever I asked her to meet up she used to make excuses and said no, we also had fights over this. Again after a few weeks she asked me to meet. I picked her from her college hostel in morning and we started roaming in my car. After sometime she asked me to park the car as she wanted to say something. She said, 2 years back a guy proposed her and she said yes only for timepass and broke up in 10 days but the guy didn't agree. The guy has been assuming him as her boyfriend since 2 years but there was nothing from her side - this is what she said. I was very angry after hearing all this but I didn't say much to her. She said from now on she will do everything as I say. After that we both started behaving like GF BF but none of us said something like 'love you' This thing went on for 3 weeks. We were talking on phone, she told me that her parents are getting her married and she don't want to marry now. It was Friday night, on Saturday I accidentally found her at a restaurant with her friend. We talked for about an hour and she asked me to meet up the next Day, I said yes. Next day morning she called and said she won't be able to come. I said its OK but I was angry. I didn't text her after that. On Tuesday I gave her a call, she said she is having dinner and will call back in 5 mins but she didn't. Next day again I called her and again she said she will call in 5 mins but didn't. After that I called her on Saturday and again the same happened. The next morning i.e. Sunday I called and asked why is she doing this, she said "I'm busy, I have a lot of work to do, I can't talk to you all the time" I also said a few words and then she asked me to meet up on tuesday, I said OK. On Monday we were testing on WhatsApp, she was talking very rudely I was very surprised with this change in her behavior and I said I'll never talk to her. After a few days she deleted my number and unfollowed me on Instagram and even uploaded a pic with a guy whom I never liked and she knew about it and when I asked her about the pic she said "you don't have any right to question me" I didn't reply and blocked her everywhere. Now I have unblocked her. I don't understand why all this happened. Could you please help me out?


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