I am 34 years old male, unmarried. I am doing a small Job as SAP consultant in Bangalore, India. I am earning around 20k per month. This is not at all enough to live in bangalore. I have around 10 years of gap in my education and discontinued my B.E and pursued B.Sc in correspondence, did certification in SAP SD. I am feeling depressed always. I always feel I don't know anything and others feel bad about me and I will be shameless. I want to lead happy life with peace and enjoy all challenges and grow in life. Small things also I feel very big, I know they are small and I do good but always doubting on myself. All negative thoughts and always criticize myself for silly things also. My daily routines are not good. I miss physical exercise and Meditation. No time for good things and wasting time in Games, chat and smoke, and wasting money also. Sometimes I feel like end my life and let my parents be relaxed and live peacefully since I am no more supporting my family and becoming like a big weight on them. I never want to give anybody any trouble, at least my family. Kindly guide me how to overcome all these and leave happy full of life by enjoying everything.
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Its very simple if you are really serious to turn around and start afresh. Accept all the experiences that you have described here ( including the state of denial , negativity, guilt etc ) and close the chapter. Resolve to start every day as a new day and focus on the present. Do not indulge in bad habits as it will only trigger your past experiences and you tend to feel like a victim. In fact you should resolve to keep your self fit and strong ( mentally and physically ) so that you have the stamina and energy to keep up the moral. Self motivation is the best way to start without waiting for external help or support. You will gain confidence the moment you resolve to change your life in a positive manner. The challenges ( your problems are nothing but reality in the form of a challenge ) will encourage you to give your best every day. Do not expect miracles to happen. Be patient and go slow and be kind to yourself.
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1. Eat well ? Take a balanced Diet comprising of 45% carbohydrate, 30% protein and 25% fats, plenty of green leafy vegetables, fruits. Don?t over eat. Avoid junk, spicy, oily, high calorie, cholesterol rich diet, don?t skip your breakfast. Take warm, homemade food.�Avoid food and drink from outside. Don?t skip or postpone your meal. Minimize consumption of refined grains like white rice, white bread, sugary or refined food. 2. Keep hydrated- Drink 2 liters /6-8 glasses of water daily 3. Do regular exercise for one hour daily like brisk walking/Jugging etc 4. Take adequate rest- 7-8 hours of sound sleep in the night is required to remain healthy 5. Avoid stress, anxiety, depression, agitation etc 6. Find time for relaxation and enjoyments with friends and family 7. Practice yoga, meditation and deep breathing exercise to calm your mind, control emotion, improve concentration and relieve stress 8. Develop hobby, Learn new skill 9.Go for detail Annual Health check up.
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