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Hi, I have a gf. She loves me very much, care for me, even she had fast for me. I don't know why I am so rude to her sometimes. I love her very much but sometimes I am very rude to her without any big reason. This makes her very sad. She cries because of my rude behaviour. When I am rude on her, I forget all the happy moments that we spent together and also forget her care that what she does. Pls tell me what should I do to be happy with her and should not be rude on her on the little things. As this daily fighting is disturbing our relationship.
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You have a nature in you that resembles an eagle. You have expectations from her and when those small expectations don't happen you lose your cool. You burst out out of intense love because you want her to change. Instead of shouting at her you can first identify what makes you so irritable and how to change thought process and expectations. First be clear with how she should change and then let her know it in simple terms. That should change things.
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