I am married and mother of one. Not happy with my husband. I fell into love with a guy who family frnd of mine. After a month I came to know that he already had a gf. Bt wanted to keep both of us. She being his pas was not able to leave her although he was not happy with her. She kept torturing me for a years so that I leave him. I even tried doing that but he wanted to hold on to me coz he sees his future with me. He wants to get married to me. But how do I accept that lady. I know for the fact that he really loves me. Please help. Shall I wait for him or move on?
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Dear lybrate-user, I can understand how you may be feeling. The question is whether you love him enough to be able to let go of this woman. Only a man can make you feel loved and secure. But if his history shows that he wanted to be with you both then that is important to keep that fact in mind. If you are someone who is a one man woman then it will be difficult. People only change if they want to. It is one thing that your marriage is not working out but it is another what you feel for this man. You have to decide to first what is the conclusion you want to give your marriage and how would you cope as a single parent. You have to let go of one relationship to allow another to begin. Then decide if you really want to be with this other man, see how he behaves with you, how well he treats you. Don't put yourself in a position where you regret any decision that you make in a hurry. You are the best judge of the situation. Good luck!
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You should accept your current marital position and shall not keep relation with any other BF which will spoil your life. You says that you are mother of one then how can you think for other BF? If you have any problem with your husband then both of you get counseling from family counselor that will help you and your family.
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You basically know many things but hardly understand the situation you are in. Actually because your relationship with your husband is at crossroads and disturbed, you are in need of some shoulder which can keep you happy. This family friend (Bf) is very smart and using you for his personal and sexual pleasures and making a fool of you. I am sure he doesn't love you at all and exploiting you by hanging a carrot of marriage in front of you. Please calm down and go all alone for a quite retreat for 10-15 days and just try to visualize your situation and do introspection. Please try to understand and avoid contact with the boy friend in this duration of 15 days. Basically you appear to be in a soup, so do as I said and if you are still confused then contact a relationship and marriage expert for opening your heart out and guidance. You can contact me either in person or online at this site Lybrate. Please open your eyes, think about your child as well.
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U have counselling and settle issues with husband. Your affairs will only give you unhappy future.
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This fellow seems to be taking you for a ride and seems to be a cheat. If he really loves you and you are utterly not compatible with your hubby, get a proper divorce and get married to this fellow. The relationship of convenience which both of you are doing may not last long and he might itch you leaving you depressed . All the best
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