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Hi, I am 21 Female. I am in a relationship. It's been 5 years now but our relationship doesn't look good. There is no understanding between us. He can't understand me he loves me but he takes everything so easy. He can live for months without talking to me but I can't even be a day without communicating him. I don't know how to change him. I just want to live happily without him but I'm failing every time he convinces me so quickly and easily but I'm not getting that how to change him and convince him I just want to live happily without him but I don't know how. Please suggest me either to change him or to leave him please I am almost getting mad. I'm always thinking about him and I have no thought. I'm unable to eat and sleep. Please suggest me.
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One of the major issues appears to be your pre-occupation with the partner and relationship. It appears to be a good time to rekindle with your original self, the way you were before the relationship. Allow yourself to nurture your original hobbies and activities, your previously pleasurable activities eg. Meeting up with other people (friends/cousins. But with a focus on yourself and not to change him. Let time take it's course from there on. Try and meet a counsellor for individual therapy. Best of luck.
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