Sir I have a serious problem related to psychiatric like when any body drive and I am sitting behind them then I feel something will happened me and I have to say stop to drive bike but when I am driving the same thing then it's not a problem please sir guide me I am too unhappy with this.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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You have a trust problem. You do not have enough confidence with others? driving and because of that you may be a controlling kind of person, where permissible. There is nothing to be so unhappy about this really. You can live with this problem quite comfortably if you ride the bike yourself all the time. If you want to resolve this then you have to learn to trust and know that others will drive safely too. You must realize that their lives are at stake too and surely they will not jeopardize their own lives as well, would they? To do so you will need to have someone ride you along and after repeated attempts you will build confidence in their abilities. Of course it helps to find a good driver all the time and then reposing confidence in a good driver is a lot easier for sure. Additionally you could work with a counselor on trust issues and resolve that to be able to deal with the driving part too rather effectively. That is some of the reason that there are so many people who do a lot of what is called, 'Back-seat driving'.: they cannot trust others but themselves only. 

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