I am in depression from a long time nearly from 5 years. Day by day I am problem is getting worsened. I am full of negativeness .i just like to be alone. L lack words while speaking. I have habit of pre thinking about everything that I am going to do. It has effected my life so much that I always want to be alone. I fear about my family when I wiil not have any job what will be condition. I keep myself busy in mobile. This has worsened my thinking power. I am getting addicted to chat tp girls only. Filled of sexual thoughts about every single girl I talk. I know I am doing wrong bt unable to control myself .As while seeing any girl I get sexually attracted. I started masturbating since I was 15 year old. I do nearly everyday even I dream a lot. There is no day that I dotn dream any bad dreams .Also have habit of nail biting, lips biting, biting inner part of cheeks. Im gud in study but these thing have effected my mind a lot. Please help me. I have gone to any dctr because of having not enough money. What to do.

Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user, It is good that you wanted to be good, and is aware of what is bad and what is wrong. Depression is not a problem, depends what is the underlying cause of your problem. I wanted to know full detail about your problem from when you started feeling depressed. Are you studying or working, Are you married or unmarried, do you have brothers or sisters. Is your family affectionate to you or not. Have you experienced anything bad when young. Look do not worry about money. I wanted to help you solve your problem and our profession is confidential, so try to share about your problem through private questions, or visit in-clinic, or book appointment so that I can solve your problem as soon as possible. Regarding money, I can give you package, which will suit you financially, but before that fix or visit in-clinic that is my online consultation. For now, I wanted you to relax, Stop worrying about bad thoughts that troubles you. Keep yourself engaged with any work of your interest. Ignore bad dreams, ignore when you get wrong thoughts that you get when you see any girl, just skip by seeing something else. I will help you by giving you some health tips, about how to carry out, this is not a serious issue. Do not worry, be strong and confident. We will help you solve your problem.  

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