Im 30 years female, I was in relationship with 5 years younger male frm 2 yrs. Starting he was very loving and caring but when I changed my place he started avoiding and behved so rudly. When he feel he send msg if nt he dnt msg evn its more than a week. Buy he wil b continues on social networking sites when I ask say truth and leave me. He said I dnt hv anyone except u. I was in confusion to believe him. Nw im so distrbd with his nature I knw he is in relation. Im nt understanding wt to do. Bcz of thz im nt flng hungry and nt flng slpy always thinking why he did to me. Sometimes I fl lk to kill for believing like him. I hardly slp fr one hour. Im so distrbd please Give me suggestion how can I cope up frm thz nightmare.

Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi Prasanna! Time will answer your question, but you can't wait, I can understand how painful it is. I do not know how close both of you were emotionally meaning mentally, that will definitely tell you whether this will last or not, not the physical attachment * that is temporary) hope I have answered your question. Do not worry. One proverb "If you love something set it free if it comes back and back again to you it is always yours, if it doesn't come back when you need it the most, then definitely it is not yours, it is not worth enough for you to stay without eating, sleeping, loosing all interest. Why you feel so depressed, when there are people around you who really care for you and have sacrificed many things in their life just for you I mean your family. Be relaxed. Stop thinking the past. Live for the present. First you go ahead and have your favourite dish really enjoying, then you will feel energetic. Call me if you need further assistance feel free to contact me either through text chat or call me when you are interested. Take care. With regards,  

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