He is in a serious relationship with a girl for 3 years He often complaints that his gf is least interested in getting physical whereas he is always making an initiative. Though they get physical he is not happy. Could you guide him as to how to deal with this .Thanks

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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Men, driven by testosterone, will always tend to have the physical agenda ruling in his relationship with the opposite sex. However, it is a very carnal way to regard the opposite sex and quite disrespectful to see them as objects. It is very important for him to learn to respect the girl's wishes in all these things because it is her body. If he cannot do this now, he does not deserve her at all. Sexual urgency must make him train his impulses to regulate his libido. This is a very good opportunity to do that. Tell him to be patient and to get physical only with his GF's consent for ideal and equal pleasure. 

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