I have an issus and I hate it but I can't control it. I love older men. Too old for me 20 years somtimes even 40 years a difference and mistly they are my teachers I feel it's not crush because it lasts too many years I know it's wrong that's why I want to forget him and start a new normal life specially that he's married and it's impossible to be together iwant to find a sollution to my issus so I don't suffer becaus it hurts too much. I really need your help thank you.

Dear , I can understand. As you already know, this is not crunch, or not infactuation. This is called obsession. When we know something is wrong and when we go for it, that is impulsive disorder and obsessive compulsion spectrum. You will need treatment for impulse disorder. I think one or two telephone counseling sessions with me should provide you with insight to your problem and tips to over come it. Please let me know if you are willing for telephone counseling session. Take care. 

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