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Hello I am in a very big dilemma. Getting married in a few days but I fight a lot with my would be husband. We fight so badly that we tell each other stuff like we are not right for each other. He also tell me things like he did a big mistake and I also in anger end up reply ing the same that I regret marrying such a guy like him. He is helpful caring person and overall respects people but he is not that mature it seems. We both also say anything when angry and this also results us having bad fights as none of them is calm and we say all things including regret of being with you .Comparison to. Others etc. The married life is yet to start and such is the situation. I don't know what I can do. Now? Who wants to live like this forever? Please suggest how this can be worked out if at all.
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Both of you go for premarital counselling from a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist. Both might be good, but personalities may not match, if they do not pull the plug. If it is minor adjustment issue, it can be resolved. All the best.
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